tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4380534023229200743.post2209234345769716747..comments2024-01-03T03:28:48.980-07:00Comments on mugwump Chronicles: Old Lady RidingMugwumphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01487540636265322556noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4380534023229200743.post-38430150851741784082014-06-09T15:52:21.330-06:002014-06-09T15:52:21.330-06:00Sometimes it seems like I spend more time trying t...Sometimes it seems like I spend more time trying to figure out why not to ride. My mare is green and hasn't tried to hurt me for the last year....sometimes it's enough to just bury my face in her neck and breathe...of course, she doesn't get the point of that and would rather eat, but in some way I think she likes it. It kind of qualifies as attention anyway. Have ridden twice in the past week. The first ride went really well. Today she was kind of distracted - probably wondering what was up with going for a ride again so soon. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4380534023229200743.post-28812509243488034972014-06-06T08:01:37.693-06:002014-06-06T08:01:37.693-06:00i'm 57 now, and never got to be the 16 year ol...i'm 57 now, and never got to be the 16 year old with horses, so the overwhelming need to make up for lost time rears its ugly head now and again, while the body doesn't always cooperate. i agree the best strategy is to evaluate what can be done safely and adjust actions. 90% of the work is done if i make myself put on my breeches and boots, and walk out to the barn. Monoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4380534023229200743.post-1736041644708534862014-06-06T06:19:16.625-06:002014-06-06T06:19:16.625-06:00I'm now over 60, and a real senior citizen, so...I'm now over 60, and a real senior citizen, so I remember 32 fondly as a time when I could and would ride any horse you could get a saddle on. I could think of a dozen things I wanted to do on a given day, do them, and then go out and dance all night and be very, very, naughty. With cowboys.<br /><br />I spent the last 4 years feeling like an invalid. I had 2 broken bones in one year, not horse related, nerve, tendon and muscle damage, and a freakin green horse. It took forever to heal, in fact I still have pain from those injuries when I overdo it. My riding sucked, I could hardly even get on the horse. Fear of more injuries was overwhelming.<br /><br />I hate to say this because I know how horses make liars out of you, but I think my horse has figured out what's required of old lady riding. Standing very still when I tell him to is one. If I can get the saddle on him, get on without too much trouble, I have the energy to actually ride. I've been riding nearly every day and feeling great again. One day last week Cowboy (my horse's name--a little joke--he's the only cowboy I dance with anymore) decided not to go into one particular part of the field and I had to work with him for over an hour before he would trot to and past that spot. I was so elated by that. I felt good when I got off, then the next morning I could barely stand up. I haven't squeezed with my legs like that in years. But the next day, and every day since, he was just wonderful. I'm with Heidi, half and hour is what I need, and as long as everything goes well, I'm happy with that.<br /><br />And Mugs, that second and third paragraph? I feel the same way, why do all old ladies have to be sweet and grateful and feel blessed all the time? I intend to be crabby and impatient as long as I can get out of bed.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4380534023229200743.post-91325213716294832932014-06-06T00:04:12.118-06:002014-06-06T00:04:12.118-06:00Agree with Becky. What worked at 10, 15, 20, etc. ...Agree with Becky. What worked at 10, 15, 20, etc. does not necessarily work now and we get to choose what does work for us. Not what someone else says we "should" be doing. Even if that someone is our own Snarky Self.<br /><br />I don't ride but I care take and that makes me happy. Cleaning the stall and paddock, medicating, doctoring, feeding, grooming, whatever else that goes on in a day all of it brings me contentment which is all any of us are truly looking for I think. MichelleLnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4380534023229200743.post-22222961703435769922014-06-05T20:39:42.685-06:002014-06-05T20:39:42.685-06:00Half an hour. Better than nothing. And no guilt ...Half an hour. Better than nothing. And no guilt or shame allowed. I'm in the mode of constantly reminding myself of all the good things in my life but that doesn't entirely erase the bad crap. Luckily my horses are pretty forgiving. As long as we're happier after a ride than before, I figure it's a success. Heidi the Hickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00639479864903922047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4380534023229200743.post-41138351518970039512014-06-05T20:31:03.772-06:002014-06-05T20:31:03.772-06:00These sound like good pointers for any age rider. ...These sound like good pointers for any age rider. I am 18 and I try to follow these things.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4380534023229200743.post-81653312206861742512014-06-05T18:51:51.296-06:002014-06-05T18:51:51.296-06:00That is sooooo right.That is sooooo right.mugwumphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00319060800328355056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4380534023229200743.post-52835686913417105402014-06-05T17:23:45.242-06:002014-06-05T17:23:45.242-06:00I always feel guilty when I go to see Caspian and ...I always feel guilty when I go to see Caspian and don't end up riding - like I'm giving up on my youth somehow. Sixteen year old Becky would be deeply depressed to find out that 32 year old Becky doesn't ride every minute that's available.<br /><br />But sometimes I'm just so stressed that my head is not in the right place for riding. And maybe it is giving up and getting old to just walk him out to the pasture and sit beside him as he grazes....<br /><br />But if it makes my heart peaceful and happy - eh, 16 year old Becky can go jump in a lake with her disapproving sneers.Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03664511837713972115noreply@blogger.com